Compassion and Gratitude
Compassion and Gratitude
Unite All Species
Last week, I got a
thank-you note from an old dog named Darlin’ Louise. She thanked me
for paying to have her picture put in the classifieds. At that time,
she was an unclaimed stray at the MSPCA. She wrote, “The most
wonderful thing happened to me at the shelter! Through my cataract
eyes, the clearest vision appeared before me.” And here is her
story.
Early in March, on a
windy stormy day, the lock on the gate where Darlin’ Louise lived
came undone. Her owner told me the dog had a stroke in January and
the family feared terribly that she’d be too confused to find her
way home. Indeed, their dog did not come back. They called the
animal control officer which was the right thing to do, but
unfortunately that avenue was not
successful.
Eventually the dog
wound up at the MSPCA. She was adopted just three days after her
arrival. This surprised me because of her advanced age. Plus
according to her owner, “Her head was crooked and she walked
crooked.” The new family changed her name from Darlin’ Louise to
Lady - not knowing that was actually her original name. Lady was
happy in her new home but was pretty quickly returned to the
shelter. “I knew something was up,” she said in her letter to me,
“when my shelter friends were so happy to sign me back
in.”
As it happened, the
dog’s real owners saw her picture in the paper, and came to the
shelter with photos to prove it was really their dog.
“My new parents (as
sweet as they were),” Lady wrote, “gladly brought me back to be
reunited with the family who had cared for me for all of my 13
years.”
I spoke to the interim
owner and asked why he would choose such an old dog. He said, “Age
isn’t important. If you could pick your family members, you’d pick
the nicest people you could find.” And so, in spite of her cloudy
eyes he adopted Lady to live out her remaining days with his family.
I asked about his children and how they felt about returning the
dog. He described the talk he had with his five year old son. “If
you were lost,” he said to his boy, “and somebody found you, we’d
want you back. Wouldn’t you want to be brought back to us?” So he
told his son that Lady would want to be with her real family
too.
I applaud this family
who graciously brought the dog back to the shelter. They’ve never
spoken to Lady’s owners. But knowing I’d be in touch with them,
their main concern was that I should pass on some medical issues,
such as the small cyst they found on her neck. And twice, Lady’s leg
went limp and she needed to be supported so that she could lie down
and be rubbed until she felt better.
And the vision Lady
referred to in her letter? “It was my MOM! I thought I would never
see her again.”
The owner was in the
habit of surprising her sons with presents by saying, “There’s
something awesome for you in your room.” And the day Lady came home,
that is what she said to the boys who were not expecting to see
their beloved lost dog, asleep in her bed, when they ran to their
room.
“It was because of your
ad that I was found and now I’m finally home. Thank you for helping
me,” Lady wrote.
The owner sent a note
to the would-be adoptive parents. “Thank you,” she said to them,
“for the courage and compassion to return
her.”
And it is this circle
of compassion that winds through this tale. From the photograph of
abandoned or lost animals that runs in the paper on Fridays. And the
fact that the Cape Cod Times runs it for free on Saturdays. There is
the sympathetic family who brought their new adoptee back. The staff
at the MSPCA who were worried about Darlin’ Louise’s welfare, being
as old as she was. Lori, the animal care supervisor, who fervently
asked me to emphasize
that people who lose their pets should call the animal control
officer, and follow-up daily, as well as check with the Animal Inn
to see if their pet is being held there.
And the circle of
gratitude. The owner who had a tough time telling me the story on
the phone because it was hard for her not to cry. The other family
who were truly grateful that Lady’s real parents were found, though
they had loved her right away. How pleased the MSPCA was to hear
that this story would be shared.
And something we can’t
control, which is luck. The shelter staff chose to take Lady’s
photograph rather than one of another homeless animal in their
refuge that Friday. The family read the paper the day her picture
was there.
Plus, and most
important, there is the miracle. And that miracle is . . . this
story would have never been told were it not for a letter-writing
dog.